Basic Membership is free... you pay only for the individual events you attend. The Inner Circle is $27/month and unlocks the full experience... early access to event registration, the monthly Throwback Daters Lounge, Women's Circle and Men's Circle sessions, a free quarterly guest pass, our private online community, and your top compatibility matches.

No. The Inner Circle is a simple monthly membership... cancel any time, no strings attached.

Yes... your first month of the Inner Circle is free. This offer is only available right now, so don't wait too long to take advantage of it.

These are 45 to 60 minute virtual sessions, held separately for women and men, on topics that come up again and again in this stage of dating and life... things like how to attract more masculine men who take the lead, or how to show up with more confidence on a first date. It's a safe, supportive space to talk through what's really going on and get real support from people who get it.

Think of it as similar to a Facebook group... a place where members can connect, share, and support each other between events and sessions. It's just for our community, so you're talking with people who are on the same journey.

As part of The Inner Circle, you'll get access to your top compatibility matches within the Throwback Dating vetted community... connections our matching process has identified as a strong fit for you, based on your values, lifestyle, and what you're looking for.

Inner Circle members can bring a guest to one event per quarter for free. We're a curated community, so we keep it a little magical by asking three things of any guest you bring: Would you date them if you were the opposite sex? Do they show up in everyday life with respect, unity, and an open heart? Can they hold a conversation without checking their phone every five minutes? If you can say yes to all three... bring them on in.

Yes, our events are in-person and hosted in Chicago and the suburbs. That in-person, real-world connection is really the heart of this community. Check out our Upcoming Events page for a taste of what we offer.