Your Love Life Is Telling You Something
One thing I’ve learned from my own dating journey is this:
Our love life is always revealing something about ourselves.
The real question is… are you listening?
Relationships act as a mirror.
They reflect back our beliefs, our fears, our patterns, and the parts of us that are still healing.
The Universe doesn’t give us what we want…
It gives us a match to who we are in this moment.
And when you look at dating through that lens, the patterns start to make a lot more sense.
What Your Patterns Might Be Trying to Tell You
If a woman tends to over-mother, she often attracts men who need to be taken care of.
If a man is a people-pleaser who over-gives, he’ll attract women who take advantage of that generosity.
If you’re a natural problem-solver, you may find yourself drawn to partners who always have something that needs fixing, because somewhere along the way, “fixing” became how you learned to feel loved, needed, or worthy.
These patterns aren’t random.
They’re invitations to look within.
If any of this hits home, here’s a place to start.
These journal prompts will help you explore your inner truth with more clarity and self-awareness:
The story I keep telling myself about men, women, or relationships is…
I show up in relationships as…
My past relationships haven’t worked out because I…
The patterns that keep repeating in my dating life are…
How do these patterns serve me?
(What void do they fill? What part of me still feels unhealed?)
This work isn’t about self-blame.
It’s about reclaiming your power.
When you understand the “why” behind your patterns, you start to make choices from a grounded, empowered place — not from old wounds.
Because at the end of the day…
You are the key to your own happiness.
And when you shift from within, the kind of people you attract begins to shift too.
If you want support navigating this season of life, connecting more intentionally, or breaking old patterns with clarity and confidence, I’m here for you.
❤️ Megan
Megan Wessels
I’m a Wing Woman for single guys over 50 who are trying to navigate this modern dating world. Through my company Throwback Dating I create fun opportunities for singles over 45 to connect organically. No more games, no more dating pressure.
