because you’re done wasting your time on the dating apps.
You’re ready to meet someone special, but let’s face it—endless swiping isn’t cutting it. Most of your friends are married, and navigating the modern dating world feels exhausting.
So, how do you meet someone great?
At Throwback Dating, we create exclusive events for high-quality singles in their 40s, 50s, 60s, and 70s who are looking for a fun and engaging way to connect.
We handle the vetting and planning, so all you have to do is show up, relax, and enjoy yourself. Imagine walking into a room filled with smart, interesting, and like-minded people who are also single and ready to meet someone like you.
Apply today and discover a dating experience that’s actually enjoyable.
MEET MEGAN
MEET MEGAN
Over the years the dating apps have become increasingly unsafe. People can be anyone they want on a dating app and there's no accountability. More and more people are giving up on dating because they just don’t want to deal with it… myself included.
In the last 10 years I have hosted over 250 events and dinner parties in Chicago (my home town) where thousands of people have developed powerful relationships.
Earlier this year I hosted a singles dinner party to bring human connection back to dating. The feedback was great! Guests had so much fun and several of them went on dates afterwards.
A few weeks later, I fell and broke both wrists at the same time.
I spent a lot of time going inward while healing and it became very clear that this is my purpose... giving people over 40 a reason to be excited about dating again!
THROWBACK DATING is made for the people who have so much to give and want companionship… but they want a better way to meet.
xo ~ Megan Wessels
how it works
step 1:
Click the “Apply” button to complete our short questionnaire. You’ll be added to our waitlist and notified via text and email when your profile has been reviewed.
step 2:
Once we review your application, we’ll send an invitation to schedule your Chemistry Call with Megan so she can learn about you and what you’re looking for.
STEP 3:
Complete our “Compatibility Questionnaire” so we can match you with the right people and then register for your first event.
STEP 4:
Meet great people at our events and decide who you want to continue the conversation with.
Our commitment to you
INTENTIONAL COMMUNITY
Our community is everything. We spend hours getting to know and interviewing candidates so that you can feel good about the people you meet at our events.
COMFORT & SAFETY
Our intention is that from the very first event you attend, you feel like you belong here. We are committed to always providing a comfortable and safe environment so that you can be yourself and have fun.
more than singles events
While our offerings reflect opportunities to attend events and meet other high quality singles, there is so much more to this community. This is a place where you can make new adult friends and continue to evolve and grow so that you’re living your best life when you meet your special someone.
COMMUNITY CODE
The Community Code is the foundational principles for our membership. We ask that members embody these values at all of our events.
Create a Space of "Welcome"
Arrive with an open mind and heart. By holding space for honesty and embracing different viewpoints, we foster an environment where everyone feels valued and can be their authentic selves. This enriches our community and creates meaningful connections.
Honor Confidentiality
True connection thrives on trust. Share openly, knowing that everything discussed at our events stays within our community. Respect the privacy of others, always.
Practice Integrity
Lead by example. Showing up with integrity sets a standard that inspires trust and encourages others to do the same.
Act with Kindness & Respect
Treat every guest with kindness, respect, and genuine curiosity. Take time to listen fully and engage in conversations that make others feel heard and valued.
Have Fun and Be You
Our events are a chance to escape, enjoy great conversations, laugh, and simply be you. Embrace the magic of the moment, the joy of matchmaking, and most importantly, have fun!